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baby, it's cold

There are two songs claiming to be Christmas songs that I detest. One of them is "Baby, It's Cold Outside" and the other we shall save for another Christmastime rant. I never liked that song even before all the controversial analyzation of it. There are people weighing in all over the place, so I can't stop thinking about it. Maybe if I write about it, I can set it on the shelf and forget about a song that has always grated on my nerves.

I've read a couple of articles bashing it and a couple of articles defending it by means of the cultural context of the sayings that are being railed against. None of the articles, however, address the issue with it not being a Christmas song in the least.

As soon as I could understand the words, I was like, Huh? How does messing around and pretending to be or actually becoming incoherently inebriated have anything to do with Christmas? Seriously, I don't get it. Maybe people do those things extra around Christmas? But the thing is it is not about Christmas.

The meaning of Christmas is about the celebration of Christ's birth and the many good things he exemplified in his life, so we can make our feeble attempts to be more like Him. To me, that's the essence of Christmas. Many people who aren't Christian even participate because of the goodwill and kindness that it provokes within our communities. Then some people might pose the flimsy argument about the pagan origins of some traditions, etc., but that's not what any Christian has celebrated at Christmastime in two or three hundred years. If what I do to celebrate Christ were meant for pagan motivations, I would stop doing them. So don't even start with me. My intent at Christmastime is entirely focused on showing love for my fellow man and to honor my God and His Son with more fervor.

Yes, the song about being cold outside, but that doesn't make it about Christmas. If we're going to cut to the chase, "Baby, It's Cold Outside" is more like a song about two people giving in to temptation and making excuses for their behavior and blaming the weather instead of being honest about feelings or circumstances. All I can hope is that I don't have to switch the radio station as often because it's not coming on anymore.


top 25 books that changed my life


  1. Frankenstein
  2. Jane Eyre
  3. HBR's 10 Must Reads on Leadership
  4. The Souls of Black Folk
  5. Night
  6. Peter Pan
  7. The Good Earth
  8. The House of the Seven Gables
  9. The Scarlet Letter
  10. Lord of the Flies
  11. The Things They Carried
  12. The Wednesday Wars
  13. Tuesdays with Morrie
  14. O Pioneers!
  15. Farenheit 451
  16. The Last Book in the Universe
  17. Anne of Green Gables Series 
  18. The Hatchet Series
  19. The Twilight Series
  20. The Chronicles of Narnia
  21. Norton Anthology of English Literature: Romantic Period
  22. The Lord of the Rings 
  23. Blackmoore
  24. Anne Frank: The Diary of a Young Girl
  25. The Chicago Manual of Style

*In random order and a series DOES count as one entry because I make the rules.